Not an hour after posting this morning, I got fresh material from someone who did exactly what I predicted, verbally lynching me for two sentences on a personal blog. They put so much effort into their sermon hoping that people would read it that I'm going to be nice and put it front and center, with the key points in bold:
"I am appalled at your insensitive comments regarding the Lauren Spierer case. While I understand the points you were making concerning the media, your choice of wording displays some sort of hostility towards this girl and those that miss her (90 pound blond....wasted....tiresome....make her corpse surface faster...) As a parent and a library professional I would suggest you seriously consider some of your career plans that you noted in an earlier posting - you mention becoming a manager someday. Good managers never forget that they are managing people and good library managers never forget they are serving the public who use the institution and not the IT or book collections within the building. Your tone is cynical and your criticism of how people treat you as they interact with you as customers tells me that you should stay away from contact with the public, as you will only give the institution you work for a bad reputation. Humanity as well as technical expertise is needed in the IT/Library world if we are to hope that Libraries will continue on in this century. Otherwise we may find our customers preferring to get their IT fixes at the local Apple/Microsoft/or whatever else there is rather than have to interact with someone like you. I appreciate that you have created this blog and are in no obligation to provide it at all - hey, it's your blog after all - but today it showed up in a simple google search in the first page of results for news on Lauren Spierer and it is probably safe to say that someone who cares about her and her family read it and now wonders about why libraries would employ a person with an attitude like yours. Lose the cruel tone please, it doesn't come over as witty or clever, just plain nasty."
Now, if you know anything about the Lauren Spierer "case," these are the facts: she was approximately 90 pounds. She was a blonde. She was underage and wasted. And after more than a month, I am 99.999% certain that all that is left of her is a corpse. If you read my post, my main point was that the local mobs have careened out of control, and are posting virulent messages against anyone who dares say anything to that effect. As soon as you do, you have your entire character generalized and speared by self-righteous white knights. Funny enough, if I happened to say the exact same thing about 90 pound blondes getting wasted and running around at 4:30 in the morning while she was alive, everyone would applaud my upstanding character. But it got her killed, so, now it's "nasty."
So thank you, Anonymous-person-who-claims-to-be-a-library-professional-but-doesn't-have-the-spine-to-identify-yourself, for proving my point exactly. If you read my post from Tuesday with any attention, which you claim you did, I didn't complain about customers at all--I complained about the lazy people I have to work with. People who, for example, would rather be commenting on blogs at 11:15 in the morning than doing their actual work. If I were a baser person, I would point out how blatantly unprofessional it is to attack random students on websites for their personal opinions. It makes me wonder exactly what kind of "professionals" the libraries are hiring these days, who believe that "the public" only includes select people they agree with.
Friday, July 15, 2011
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Quite a load you got off your chest in your "Case in point" posting. I feel pretty confident you will not wish to post my next comment - that's fine by me. Like I said, it's your blog.
ReplyDeleteYou say you are sure she was wasted - well, eyewitnesses saw her wasted earlier on but at 4:30 am, according to those who saw her leave, she was walking unassisted. So unless you were there.....
You say you are confident she is now a corpse. Right, you know this for definite, yes? I guess you didn't keep up with the Jaycee Dugard case, did you? Missing people do turn up but my point was that your description of Lauren as a corpse while her family and friends are still looking for was unnecessarily cruel.
You claim that the public would applaud you if you said she was wasted at 4:30 am and alive? I doubt that somehow. I'm not hearing a whole lot of babble in the news as the students of the US party on. Do you think we live in the era prohibition still?
No, your words were cruel, especially as her family continues to search for her and keep her disappearance from fading into a cold case.
I'd like to address you comments on me. "Anonymous person who claims to be a library professional" posted the comments in this way because, a. your blog permitted it and b. as a professional in the library world I maintain a separation between my work life and my private life. My name is out there in the library field and I have no intention of giving you the mechanism to sully a career spanning many years. That's just good common sense but it obviously frustrated you not to be able to spew vitriol directly to me.
You also accused me of blogging rather than doing my actual work. Well, intelligent IT person, on the west coast of this great country, it was 7:30 am and I was at home, not at work - hence my comment above on keeping work and personal life separate.
I would also be interested to hear from you where exactly I indicated a desire for the public to be "select" persons who agree with me? I commented that your overall tone was nasty but obviously this comes naturally to you.
Lastly, you appear to have some doubt that I am a library professional. Well, does a Bachelor in Library Science from Queens University Belfast, followed by 9 years as a public librarian in the UK, followed by completion of an MLS (San Jose) and 20 years a librarian in the USA settle this doubt in your mind? You might want to have a quick conversation with Blaise Cronin next time you run into him and ask him about his time at Queens.....in the late 70's and if he kept in contact with Bill Martin after he got his degree.....?
What seems witty and pithy to you, is being heard far and wide and does reflect on your profession, like it or not.
Personally, I find it hilarious that you claim to post anonymously so your career can't be 'sullied' by being linked to comments you make online.
ReplyDeleteIf you feel so emboldened by the knowledge that you're the civil, morally acceptable individual, why the wall of separation between your statements and your identity? If you're oh-so-justly pointing out the cruelness of others with your comments, why not stand proudly by them? I mean, you're the one that's repairing your profession's reputation from Tamara's marring actions, right?
I'd venture that it's because you know you're speaking like a self-"righteous" ass and would be shamed were people to know how you act when you think no one is looking. You come off from the position of civility, yet insist on hiding from a veil of anonymity because you lack the spine to stand by what you say.
As a general rule, if one lacks the courage to stand by their just comments, the comments really aren't. The speaker is just masking their bile with a mask of 'justice' so they can internalize it as a justification for acting aggressive or in an otherwise socially unacceptable manner. If the speaker honestly felt their actions were acceptable, they wouldn't fear being known for them.
So, let me get this straight. I make an off-hand comment on a /personal/ blog about a dead drunk blonde being dead, drunk, and blonde, and I would make a terrible library professional because I have no sympathy for "The Public." You, on the other hand, can write lengthy personal attacks on a random 23-year-old girl in Indiana, and it's okay because she was 'cruel' so she doesn't count as "The Public." And since it's /personal/, it shouldn't have any implications for your reputation or your abilities in the workplace. I see now.
ReplyDeleteAnd no, I am not "convinced" by a paragraph of name-dropping. Why on earth would I be? I could say I graduated from the Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry, and it would carry just as much authority as an unidentified stranger writing hostile comments on my blog, claiming to live in California and have advanced degrees. Oh, and you just so /happened/ to attend the same university as my school's former Dean. Isn't that convenient. You couldn't just have found his name and CV in two seconds on Google or anything.
While your words may seem perfectly righteous and reasonable to you, they are riddled with hypocrisy and arrogant BS, like it or not.
A few years ago, there was an incident in which a teenage girl shot herself while in a drug induced haze. She was getting doped up with her brother, who was on probation for drug offenses. The punch line was that the parents were a wealthy couple who had founded a foundation to fight drug use in teens. They had all the time in the world to fight evils in society, and none to look after their own children.
ReplyDeleteYou have, unfortunately, experienced the wrath of one of those who gets emotionally invested in distant concerns because it is easier to be concerned about distant victims than the human beings he has to deal with day to day. And it is certainly easier for him to question the motives of a stranger than to look into his own.